I always liked myself, I was usually the funniest guy I knew. Sometimes I just crack myself up. Just didn't like 99% of the dubs. Still wondering why I stayed in for 28 years.??
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Do you like yourself
by is there help out there inwhen you were a jw did you find you did not like your self.
when you left the truth did you find that you liked yourself more and enjoyed life..
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What was going on this past week with the JW's?
by Melody Blankenship inthey were not "open for business" on thursday or sunday.
was there a convention going on somewhere?
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Perhaps more cost cutting? Maybe change to one meeting a week to cut local expenses so as to send more $$$ to the mother ship.
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This has to rate high on the most disturbing videos I've ever seen. (Warning people with weak stomachs should refrain)
by StoneWall inwas just cruising thru videos on youtube and found this gem.. enjoy.......if you can.
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v3jncbe1vty&feature=popular.
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I was waiting for an alien to pop out of that hole in his back.
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Simply out of curiosity..... (did it really kill the cat?!)
by wantstoleave in.....anyone here a smoker?
whether in or out....
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Never smoked anything except for the times I was drunk and had a cigar, which was many times when I was still in.
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After a week, this is where I'm at.....
by wantstoleave ini have been active on this board a week now and i think for the most part, my head is alot clearer now.
previously when i'd considered leaving the organisation, i had no other knowledge to back up my feelings.
i simply just wanted to leave and thought that come armageddon, i would die.
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As you continue reading information on this site, you will continue to see more and more what a wicked cult you were in. Continue reading. I too was in a bad marrage that I let continue for 21 years, and threw away 28 years believing falsehoods. Now almost two years onto divorce and fade, I could not be happier.I can second what Bubba said, it gets easier and more wonderful the further you get away from that horrible religion.
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Did You Ever Spank Your Kids?
by minimus inwere you spanked?.
is spanking "wrong"?
(they say your iq might be affected adversely from being spanked)..
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Spank? What is that? I got beat.
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Tried and Failed methods of Field Service...
by vilot inpaul wrote: really, woe is me if i did not declare the good news!
(1 corinthians 9:16) he was not casual about the good news because preaching it meant life for himself and his hearers.
(1 timothy 4:16) we view our ministry in the same way.
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Television and radio ads are very expensive, and you have dubs wearing out their vehicles, driving all across the land at no cost to the publishing company. It is obvious what is more important to the publishing company, effective advertizing or free advertizing.
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Prejudice in the Kingdom Hall.
by Joshnaz inhave you ever noticed how in the kingdom halls who have a mix of races, you find the whites sit in one area of the kingdom hall, and the blacks have their own section?
the district conventions and circuit assemblys too.
i've noticed one particular section where there were just black people who made up about 20% of the dc and the rest were white.
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Along with JWOODS comment: My experiences were in the mid atlantic area. We had problems with hair cuts. I kept my hair short, usually a flat top. I was counseled by two elders that a military haircut was unacceptable. I asked to see this in writing. They Quoted some crap about following popular or worldly fads, nothing in print. So I got a crew cut. Again, same two had discussed how I wore my hair in an elders meeting and felt it necessary to counsel me again. This time it was too short. If I keep these kind of haircuts, I will lose my priveleges. I am white, and named five other brothers who actually trim their hair with clippers, half the length of mine, who are all elders or servants. The elders said that that was different. I asked why? They didn't really have anything to say, so I said the obvious. BECAUSE THEY ARE BLACK (afro-american)? Is there one set of rules for blacks, another for whites? Why can they have their priveleges wearing their hair short, and I cant? They acted a little nervous and had nothing to say. Again I asked to see this in writing exactly how long a brothers hair should be, and the exemptions for other nationalities. Nothing. Then I asked how long I should wear my hair? One elder said"OH, I can't tell you how long your hair should be" I said that they have had two elders meetings about exactly that, and I have been counseled twice about it. They had nothing to say, so the next meeting they had nothing to worry about, I took clippers and cut off as much as I could, then shaved my head with a razor. I told one of the elders who had counseled me twice that there should not be anymore time wasted in the elder meetings about my hair anymore. They can actually be concerned with real congregational matters.
I know what they were doing. Some wanted me recommended for elder, but some said that I had a bad attitude. They were trying to see how many hoops they could get me to jump through to prove that I was worthy. I was a MS and have a good work ethic, so I did my assignments well, but I would not put up with any bull shit. By that time I knew it was all a sham and wanted out anyway, definitely didn't want to be appointed elder.
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Glad to see he had a stroke, I'd like to see him limping around bethel, drooling all down his face, still trying to bully everyone around. Will the uber dubs still fear him now???
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How Did You Handle Sitting At The Meetings?
by minimus indid you pretend to listen?
did you actually follow along, listening intently?.
at the end i was listening more intently and getting more irritated by the whole sham..
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Toward the end I was bored, angry also from the information presented. I could not believe the BS and the spin the WTS would spew out and everyone would say what a good meeting we had today. What were they listening to??? When I was the sound servant, there was always "prep work" to be done, load next song on CD, untangle mic cords, organize and talk to mic handlers, 1 would first half of WT study, another would do second half, giving you 4 people to talk with, change one from 1st half to second, it could go on through the whole meeting and keep it interesting because you wouldn't hear anything form the platform. When I was the literature servant I would do the monthly count of literature during meetings, again no time to listen.
We had 2 congs meeting in one hall, so I hated when we had the late meetings, you would miss all NFL games for the entire season, except for Monday nights. On those afternoons I would get a headache and go out & sit in the car, of course listening to the Steeler games. On Sundays with the really good games scheduled, would make an excuse to HAVE to leave after the Public talk. Even at assemblies, people thought I was working because I was never in my seat, but I was in the car listening to Penn State on saturdays, and Steelers on sundays.
If I was sitting through the watchtower study, about paragraph 8 I would start writing places to go to eat in the margins or on top or bottom of magazine for after the meeting, and hand it to my then wife. She would write another place, and on it would go through the rest of the meeting.By the end of the meeting, we had no idea what the meeting was about, but we knew where we were going for lunch. Amen and out the door!